Some people no matter what the change-work, never get healed, or their health improves for a while but then deteriorates again. You may wander from healer to healer, always searching for that ‘missing something’ but never finding it. Alternatively, you may fill your life with addictive behaviours, trying to fill the void, or to dull their constant awareness of feeling incomplete. Typical comments are ‘A part of me observes with my mind, but I don’t connect with the emotional feeling’ or ‘when he left it felt like he took a part of me with him’.
Just as the brain may suffer from integration problems, so can the soul. It does not mean that a part of the soul has wandered off. Rather, it means that communication between parts of the soul has become disrupted.
One of the main reasons why you may have limited success with therapy is because the ‘complete being’ is not receiving the change-work. In her book ‘Soul Retrieval’ Sandra Ingerman sums it up as follows:
‘Psychotherapy only works on the parts that are ‘home’
Fragments of the soul could have been:
- Frightened Away
- Taken and kept by someone else
- Wandered off
- Disorientated due to Drug / Alcohol abuse
Reasons for the Soul Fragment
Trauma
- Severe Trauma
- Surgery
- Physical Abuse
- Emotional Abuse
- Major Accident
- Medical Trauma
Emotional
- End of a Relationship
- Family Bereavement
- Moving House
- Moving School
- Death of a Friend
- Losing a Job
- Retirement
- Self Worth
- Self Love
- Feeling Incomplete
- Feeling like you don’t belong here
Spiritual
- Spirits
- Soul Contracts
- Past Vows
- Psychic Attack
- Religious Fear
Few things we do in life will be more rewarding or have more far-reaching consequences than healing our wounded soul.
Becoming ‘whole’ again leads to empowerment, serenity, and the ability to have a more loving relationship with self and others. It creates the freedom to let go of self-sabotaging behaviours such as addictions, bad habits and unhealthy relationships, that we needed in the past to make us feel ‘complete’. It brings with it a sense of strength and security that allows us to be happy and joyous in the moment, no matter what is happening in our lives.